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Have you ever had a parent tell you that? My dad was watching Lakeview terrace or what ever it's called and he just started going on a completely random topic: If I date a white boy. My mom got mad at him and said that I could marry whoever I wanted too ( not that I am getting married. There is something about sharing a room with a "soulmate" that makes me want to keep my room all to myself). Does anyone else face these issues from parents? And to tell the truth im not even intrested in any guys ( or girls) i'm focusing on other things.

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infamous, my brother. I hope you're not calling me one of "the pro-every/anything brigade". I'm not that but really man. Cave painters?!? Beasts?! Crackers?!! Actually cave painters was one i hadn't heard yet. I thought it was funny. Sue me.

On the real though, I don't date white women. I even turn down the dome. I don't smash and dash 'em either. I just really prefer black women i.e. women of recent African descent. I'd date a Tamil, or any of those darker asian women like Torres Strait Islanders or Fijians too. I like what I like and for political reasons I date black women exclusively.

I don't feel the need to degrade and demean white people though. Yes, they can be shysty but so can los negros. You can't tell me no black person has ever fucked you over. If old boy was shitty that was him. Fuck him! Move on to a better friend. I had one white guy friend fuck me over. I have had many black friends male and female do it. That's just shitty people dog. That said I do prefer my black friends.

I will give you ultimate props for not being a bitch ass coward and speaking your mind. There's plenty of people on this board that feel the same as you do but they are cowards and won't speak up. I respect the fact that you're not mincing words either. If that's how you feel that's how you feel. I am not going to ostracize you for it and I won't be acting like a bitch and shitting on you in pm and asking for you to be banned either. The racial epithets thing is getting kind of crazy though. All white people are not fucked up and you are painting them with a broad although not totally undeserved brush.

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infamous lifestylez said:
Oh brother, the pro-every/anything brigade is here to persecute me. Y'all are so "open-minded" until someone disagrees with you, then y'all start spittin' fire on a nigga, attempting to belittle me, using their tired European-like reverse psychology tactics, etc. Really, it's boring so please come up with a new tactic or come with facts for once.

Speaking your mind is one thing, being a bigot is something totally different. Nobody says that you have to love white folks, or anybody else for that reason. You should be allowed to express yourself on this board, I support that, but:
1) Try to restrain from racial slurs. dude, you're acting like a straight up racist and that's not cool.
2) After expressing your racist feelings don't be a wuss and get upset at us fence sitting kneegrows for calling you out on it. Your allowed to express yourself and everyone else is allowed to respond.

Racism is ugly no matter where it comes from, but when it comes from the very people who it affects the most is when it's the most perplexing.
As far as interracial dating...whatever. Whatever makes you happy. Whatever floats your boat.

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Honestly, as a parent of two boys and one girl (two of my kids whom are fast approaching dating age), I'd prefer they'd bring home an african american first. I understand that it is hypocritical of me as I had dated outside my race and had that experience, and also where we live and where they go to school there are not too many black kids, but that's just how I feel. I want to see myself in the man my daughter brings home, and I want to see my son's mother, not just physically but someone who has lived the african american experience (and although things are a lot better for you kids now than when I was coming up, it is STILL an experience). But having been on the other end of being that kid that's been in my girlfriend's parents home and watching their faces as they tried to digest my blackness and what it meant for their daughter to be with me, I would never put anyone my kids were dating through that. I'd let them know privately how I felt, but treat their boyfriends/girlfriends with respect.

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BlackJeff said:
infamous lifestylez said:
Oh brother, the pro-every/anything brigade is here to persecute me. Y'all are so "open-minded" until someone disagrees with you, then y'all start spittin' fire on a nigga, attempting to belittle me, using their tired European-like reverse psychology tactics, etc. Really, it's boring so please come up with a new tactic or come with facts for once.

Speaking your mind is one thing, being a bigot is something totally different. Nobody says that you have to love white folks, or anybody else for that reason. You should be allowed to express yourself on this board, I support that, but:
1) Try to restrain from racial slurs. dude, you're acting like a straight up racist and that's not cool.
2) After expressing your racist feelings don't be a wuss and get upset at us fence sitting kneegrows for calling you out on it. Your allowed to express yourself and everyone else is allowed to respond.

Racism is ugly no matter where it comes from, but when it comes from the very people who it affects the most is when it's the most perplexing.

QFT.

Speaking your mind vs. being a bigot.

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I understand what you're saying, but the voices of my ancestors speak with much more authority on this topic. They were warning me all along to stop dealing with the beast in general, but I didn't listen until it was too late.

CaliforniaAfrican said:
So, you're saying that you made a mistake by being a White man's friend? I remember the pictures. You two seemed really close. Mistakes happen though, right? We all make mistakes. Perhaps your philosophy about White folks may just be another mistake that you're making. Human beings make mistakes all the time.

infamous lifestylez said:
Actually, we're not friends anymore. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt, but he showed me you can't trust any of THEM. i've really been trying to minimize my contacts with the crackers, I mean, I'm civil to them, but I try not to deal with them outside of work or school. I'm not inviting them over for dinner or anything, that's for sure.

CaliforniaAfrican said:
@Lifestylez What happened to your pictures on your page? Didn't you have pictures of you and a White male friend hangin out at a bar or a pool hall? Is it okay to be friends with "devils", but not to love them?

infamous lifestylez said:
Oh brother, the pro-every/anything brigade is here to persecute me. Y'all are so "open-minded" until someone disagrees with you, then y'all start spittin' fire on a nigga, attempting to belittle me, using their tired European-like reverse psychology tactics, etc. Really, it's boring so please come up with a new tactic or come with facts for once.

I feel you, guy. I mean, I'm not trying to beef with mothafuckas, but they keep spittin' that fire at me, so I'm not giving them right of way and I'm not gonna kiss anyone's ass for the sake of it. At the same time, I'm not arguing for the sake of arguing either. On the topic of getting fucked over by blacks, I think the whole "fucking over" people is a European trait that was acculturated and internalized into the culture dating back to our earliest dealings with the beast.

Racial epithets? Lol, are you clownin'? The beast--our co-workers, our professors, our politicians, our police, etc are at the dinner table RIGHT NOW ranting about "niggers" and plotting new methods of killing us and you're getting on me for correctly naming the beast by his rightful name? Hmmmm, I dunno. I think the our perspectives are different on this because you think how I used to think: instead of (correctly, at least IMO) seeing the beast collectively, you're making the mistake (IMO) of viewing him individually. Like for instance, do you think the beast wants to kill all of us or just "some" of us? That's really for another topic, but just something simple for you to think about.

kifaru said:
infamous, my brother. I hope you're not calling me one of "the pro-every/anything brigade". I'm not that but really man. Cave painters?!? Beasts?! Crackers?!! Actually cave painters was one i hadn't heard yet. I thought it was funny. Sue me.

On the real though, I don't date white women. I even turn down the dome. I don't smash and dash 'em either. I just really prefer black women i.e. women of recent African descent. I'd date a Tamil, or any of those darker asian women like Torres Strait Islanders or Fijians too. I like what I like and for political reasons I date black women exclusively.

I don't feel the need to degrade and demean white people though. Yes, they can be shysty but so can los negros. You can't tell me no black person has ever fucked you over. If old boy was shitty that was him. Fuck him! Move on to a better friend. I had one white guy friend fuck me over. I have had many black friends male and female do it. That's just shitty people dog. That said I do prefer my black friends.

I will give you ultimate props for not being a bitch ass coward and speaking your mind. There's plenty of people on this board that feel the same as you do but they are cowards and won't speak up. I respect the fact that you're not mincing words either. If that's how you feel that's how you feel. I am not going to ostracize you for it and I won't be acting like a bitch and shitting on you in pm and asking for you to be banned either. The racial epithets thing is getting kind of crazy though. All white people are not fucked up and you are painting them with a broad although not totally undeserved brush.

Oh, puhleaze! You're full of crap, you support free expression, as long as it doesn't ruffle your feathers, i.e. you don't really but pretend you do. And it's not about the fact that you respond, it's how you respond. You try and make it seem as though your view on the topic is supreme.

Besides all that, the stuff you're talking about--it's garbage that doesn't apply to me and I'm not sure where it's all coming from. Maybe you're a chronic white girl-dater and I offended you personally. If so, I apologize and pity you simultaneously. Don't take it this way.

P.S. you come across as being rather angry and perhaps constipated in more ways than one.

BlackJeff said:
infamous lifestylez said:
Oh brother, the pro-every/anything brigade is here to persecute me. Y'all are so "open-minded" until someone disagrees with you, then y'all start spittin' fire on a nigga, attempting to belittle me, using their tired European-like reverse psychology tactics, etc. Really, it's boring so please come up with a new tactic or come with facts for once.

Speaking your mind is one thing, being a bigot is something totally different. Nobody says that you have to love white folks, or anybody else for that reason. You should be allowed to express yourself on this board, I support that, but:
1) Try to restrain from racial slurs. dude, you're acting like a straight up racist and that's not cool.
2) After expressing your racist feelings don't be a wuss and get upset at us fence sitting kneegrows for calling you out on it. Your allowed to express yourself and everyone else is allowed to respond.

Racism is ugly no matter where it comes from, but when it comes from the very people who it affects the most is when it's the most perplexing.
As far as interracial dating...whatever. Whatever makes you happy. Whatever floats your boat.

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DJ Random Brotha said:
"I understand what you're saying, but the voices of my ancestors speak with much more authority on this topic. They were warning me all along to stop dealing with the beast in general, but I didn't listen until it was too late."

Now I know your bullshitting, cause last time I checked, only Native Americans can have spirtual quest/Hullcinations from there ancestors warning them of the approaching white man.

An elderly Native American man who actually turned out to be my Grandpa had an extra horse and beckoned me to the forrest. Not even joking, I had a total vision quest.

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Lmao @ "only Native Americans". You're full of crap.

DJ Random Brotha said:
"I understand what you're saying, but the voices of my ancestors speak with much more authority on this topic. They were warning me all along to stop dealing with the beast in general, but I didn't listen until it was too late."

Now I know your bullshitting, cause last time I checked, only Native Americans can have spirtual quest/Hullcinations from there ancestors warning them of the approaching white man.

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I have a lot of Native americans in my family. I wish I knew them :(

DJ Random Brotha said:
NO YOU SIR ARE FULL OF CRAP! "OMFGLOLLOTFLWTF"- :-|

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My parents joke about it, but it's a little late my niece is half mexican and my nephew is half white, I think they would prefer if me and my sisters dated within our own race, but in the end it's our happiness that matters most. Personally? I'm with you, I'm not interested in anybody, but it's hard enough nowadays to find a decent guy so if I do come across one he could be purple for all I care, just as long as he treats me right :D

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DJ Random Brotha said:
NO YOU SIR ARE FULL OF CRAP! "OMFGLOLLOTFLWTF"- :-|

Pls, you been bitchmade, saying shit like this in the other thread:

DJ Random Brotha said:
Every religon has it fuck ups.

Leave the Christians alone...without them you wouldn't be here.....

(NOTE: AGREEING WITH THE CONCEPT OF SLAVERY)

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After bringing home the Destructocon 5000 orgazmo version 5.0, my parents could care less about any human I date ... as long as it's human and not a robot again. It was such a good lover though .... Who would have thought a robot could make a gal feel so good ... lol

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Was he hot?

Obsidian said:
After bringing home the Destructocon 5000 orgazmo version 5.0, my parents could care less about any human I date ... as long as it's human and not a robot again. It was such a good lover though .... Who would have thought a robot could make a gal feel so good ... lol

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