so uncomfortable!!!!!!!ARGHHHHH

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

my room-mate is currently masturbating while i'm at my desk....this shit is happening way to much...i don't know what to do....this is fucking weird...i mean she knows good and well i am in the room....shit she's making noises...argh...this is my room to I am not living!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Mlle d. Sade]

......is she cute/hot?

Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty" said:

lol she's white.

Darkness Unlimited* said:

It's a lady? NIIIIICE! Is she Black or White?

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

oh my goodness....i mean she's not ugly or anything...she's okay....hey what this got to do with anything LOL ^_^

[Obsidian]

Mutual assured masturbation basically.

[Ken-K]

Next time, ask her if she could use an extra hand.

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

LOL i should do that.

Ken-K said:

Next time, ask her if she could use an extra hand.

[Mlle d. Sade]

For starters. ^_^ Just to see how open she is.

Obsidian said:

Mutual assured masturbation basically.

[KingKoopa]

I agree with everyone else!

If you can't beat em, join em! She obviously is trying to get your attention lol.

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

Hmmm wonder what type of attention she be wanting from me??? LOL ^_^

KingKoopa said:

I agree with everyone else!

If you can't beat em, join em! She obviously is trying to get your attention lol.

[Sarah]

I think we can all guess what she wants from you. lol

But i'd definitely tell her something.


Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty" said:

Hmmm wonder what type of attention she be wanting from me??? LOL ^_^

KingKoopa said:

I agree with everyone else!

If you can't beat em, join em! She obviously is trying to get your attention lol.

[Rosenda]

Well said. So Vicki what's happened? Did you talk to her or say anything to her about it bothering you?

Tell her your'e not interested, in case she's doing that loud thing thinking you'll join in. One never knows, do one? ;) Damn I guess I am lucky I too never had a tripped out roommate. If your roommate is an exhibitionist and that's her thing, you have to be the one tell her it's not really your thing.

Mlle d. Sade said:

omg boundaries!

Have a constructive, assertive conversation with her about boundaries, "I feel that it's inconsiderate of you to do *that* so loudly- it makes me uncomfortable" or something like that but in your style. If she's not a creep (which is unlikely since she's doing this) she'll knock it off. Or maybe she thinks you don't notice. Either way, compromise and be gentle. I once pissed off a roommate- with two girls/women, it's all in how we speak to each other.

I was blessed as far as roommates go. I was the one who was sort of a nightmare.

[Cindy]

lolz AWKWARD and nasty. Tell that heifer off and put her on blast shes getting way too comfortable around you ugh

[Tina Contis-Quinn]

You have got to say something to her, no if's and's or but's about it...and the sooner the better. Personally, I think if it were me I prolly would have said something to her the very first time she did it...maybe even burst out laughing at her and whipped her blanket off and then told her to knock it off. I mean, damn, it's not like you're not sitting in the room w/her and able to see and hear everything. She prolly would really hate me as a roommate because I would definitely be the one to throw a dildo at her and tell her to get a room ELSEWHERE.

Is she daft?!?!?! (just because she made it into college does NOT mean she has brains in all the right places - commonsense wise).

Perhaps she thinks you might get turned on by her "fun=sounds" and want to join in. Put the kabosh on that situation with a quickness and tell her what's up. That you don't appreciate it, that you think it's disrespectful and that when her boyfriend comes to visit, if and when they want to get down, that they do so when you're not around, or get a room somewhere.

Good luck to you.