so uncomfortable!!!!!!!ARGHHHHH

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

my room-mate is currently masturbating while i'm at my desk....this shit is happening way to much...i don't know what to do....this is fucking weird...i mean she knows good and well i am in the room....shit she's making noises...argh...this is my room to I am not living!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[NpyHedBlkChld]

oh wooow....thats really really awkward

[kifaru]

So why don't you say something to her?

[CurvyDivaJC]

WOW...so disrespectful to you and herself! I would want to do that in the privacy of my own bedroom! Nothing you can do about that but talk to her or when she is gettin it real good....THROW SOMETHING AT HER!!!!!

[kifaru]

Better to talk to her before throwing something.

CurvyDivaJC said:

WOW...so disrespectful to you and herself! I would want to do that in the privacy of my own bedroom! Nothing you can do about that but talk to her or when she is gettin it real good....THROW SOMETHING AT HER!!!!!

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

I mean it's not like I really know her like that. I wouldn't say that I'm best friend with the chick. I think it's rude as hell. She can do that shit on the weekend cause she goes home every weekend. I'm going to hate it when that damn boyfriend of hers who's she getting off to on the phone comes and visit. I'll be damn if they run me out of my room. I would leave and everything to give her, her privacy but sometimes I want to stay in my room..shit....I hope she don't start that shit tonight.


That bitchy side of me may soon show it's face LOL.....I might throw her a dildo and tell her to get a room somewhere else >.>

[Obsidian]

Aaaah I remember those days. My room mate was the dorm grandma and I was the only Black chick - both feared and revered. People would always be in the room, wouldn't talk to me, and continue to be there laughing and partying well into time I had to go to bed to catch an 8:30 class. A masturbator sounds real bad and the only thing I can think of is to confront her about it and get an RA invovled - that or fight fire with fire. Pump up the music loud, comment to her afterwards in a jokey manner "Omg you are so totally gutsy masturbating like that while I'm around. Can I tape your performance for my friends??" There was this girl who would masturbate in the student lounge of another dorm cause it would get her rocks off. It could well be your roommate either has zero respect for you or she thinks you can't hear her.

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

Wow well I question that sometimes. I mean she talking all sweety sweet talk on the phone with her boyfriend and I wonder if she don't think I can hear her. Maybe she thinks I'm ignorant or something and I don't know what masturbating sounds like LOL. She's bold alright. I might actually comment or say something to her LOL while she's doing it.

Maybe she thinks it's just a normal think for girls who barely know each other like that to touch themselves in the same room hmmmmmmm......

Obsidian said:

Aaaah I remember those days. My room mate was the dorm grandma and I was the only Black chick - both feared and revered. People would always be in the room, wouldn't talk to me, and continue to be there laughing and partying well into time I had to go to bed to catch an 8:30 class. A masturbator sounds real bad and the only thing I can think of is to confront her about it and get an RA invovled - that or fight fire with fire. Pump up the music loud, comment to her afterwards in a jokey manner "Omg you are so totally gutsy masturbating like that while I'm around. Can I tape your performance for my friends??" There was this girl who would masturbate in the student lounge of another dorm cause it would get her rocks off. It could well be your roommate either has zero respect for you or she thinks you can't hear her.

[Mlle d. Sade]

omg boundaries!

Have a constructive, assertive conversation with her about boundaries, "I feel that it's inconsiderate of you to do *that* so loudly- it makes me uncomfortable" or something like that but in your style. If she's not a creep (which is unlikely since she's doing this) she'll knock it off. Or maybe she thinks you don't notice. Either way, compromise and be gentle. I once pissed off a roommate- with two girls/women, it's all in how we speak to each other.

I was blessed as far as roommates go. I was the one who was sort of a nightmare.

[CaliforniaAfrican]

Please, oh please, hurry up and talk to this chick before her boyfriend comes for a visit! They are totally going to fuck with you right in the same room. This reminds me of my dorm days! This guy upstairs would actually leave his room and sleep in the lounge because his wanna-be-pimp roommie was always bringing someone in the room to fuck. One time, several of us sat in the hallway, listening and loudly echoing the noises we heard from outside. Some people are just rude. Talk to homegirl. Set her straight before it's too late. "I'm just over here! I can HEAR you. It's rude, chick!"

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

Yeah something will be said about this shit. Because I feel that if her boyfriend came over something would go on between them. I'll give them privacy but if they take it to far and get frisky while I'm in my room........ >.>

[Darkness Unlimited*]

It's a lady? NIIIIICE! Is she Black or White?

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

lol she's white.

Darkness Unlimited* said:

It's a lady? NIIIIICE! Is she Black or White?