M-F Anal

[XiaMin]

Gay or not gay? How much anal is too gay? Why anal if you have a cooch available? Just ?? ppl....

[Mlle d. Sade]

I don't understand how anal sex with a woman makes a man gay.

Gay or bi or pan men are that way because the male body turns them on.. ..got nothing to do with the nature of holes. As if sexuality was that easy a riddle.

[sceneless]

Not gay. Gay guys don't like girls.

[Ken-K]

What, you mean if a woman fucks a guy in the ass with a strap-on? I don't know, really. I would say no. To say nothing of a number of gay male couples where anal penetration isn't involved in their sexual repetroit.

[jahluv]

Male - Female sex, right?

Anal - Another option on the wheel 'o sex I guess. I do think there are some issues of domination and submission involved. If I were a woman - my "spidey senses" would be alerted if my male partner only wanted booty and no punanni.

What's up XiaMin?

[Ken-K]

That's kind of how I'd look at it. It doesn't seem as mutual as the pussy, 'cause of how our views of what's "acceptable" or "traditional" in the realm of sex, are shaped. The rule of thumb has been "butt sex is WRONG!" Not sure what to think of a guy only wanting the ass from his woman. I'm sure it's dandy, but I couldn't go without the pussy for too long.

Another factor is these messed up girls who honestly believe they're preserving their virginity if they only have anal sex. "It's not the vagina, so it must be okay, right?" Yeah, beyond that, I gots nothin'.

jahluv said:

Male - Female sex, right?

Anal - Another option on the wheel 'o sex I guess. I do think there are some issues of domination and submission involved. If I were a woman - my "spidey senses" would be alerted if my male partner only wanted booty and no punanni.

What's up XiaMin?

[XiaMin]

Ha Spidey senses. Nothings up it's definately a 90 (punnani) 10 (booty) split (pun intended), I was just wondering I guess. I mean I know about changing things up and trying something different...but there have been a lot of crazy stories going around (online, TV, etc) about ppl leading double lives or just straight up lying (about all kinds of things, gay, affairs, bank fraud, being unemployed but pretending to still go to work, etc not just sex) and half the time I think "She MUST have known", but really does she seem any less clueless than me? I don't know. Just don't want to ever find myself in a similar situation (No one likes being made a fool of ya know) and I figure information is the best arsenal. And I always thought it was normal to at least have/experiment/ask for a-play in a M-F relationship, I admit I never considered the DL aspect of it until recently...so ya know, just asking :)

jahluv said:

Male - Female sex, right?

Anal - Another option on the wheel 'o sex I guess. I do think there are some issues of domination and submission involved. If I were a woman - my "spidey senses" would be alerted if my male partner only wanted booty and no punanni.

What's up XiaMin?

[neophrates]

girls that don't like it in the behind, are homophobes. haha.

[Mlle d. Sade]

neophrates said:

girls that don't like it in the behind, are homophobes. haha.

This is true. I'm gonna go one step further and say "prudes" as well. Just kidding. ...but kinda not.
I was talking to this dude the other day and he was talking about how his ex wouldn't give him a blowjob or let him use the back door. ...wtf?
I can't even believe girls like that still exist w/o a religious/spiritual reason. ..cause that chick was typical southern baptist (EVERYTHING that is not missionary is the debil/women are the debil). ...I'm counting that as social rather than truly religious.

Prudes really get my goat: the self hating female kind. I just don't understand it. Kinda makes me want to pull a Groucho on them or at least lecture them.
*sigh*

It's lonely on this damn island.

[CocoaPuss Zine]

i also hate prudes. i'm agreeing with you way too much these days... what's up with that? anyway, yeah women should at least be willing to TRY new things, just to see if they like it or not. i'm pretty sure the bible doesn't say "don't give head and don't do anal". but i'm no expert. women who don't give head really really UPSET me because then i meet some guy who hasn't had a BJ in ages and now that is way more work for me. i want to give a workshop on how to do this properly.

i don't think doing anal or not doing anal has anything to do with being gay though. i'm not gay so i'm not sure if there is a set rule or clear line on what makes someone gay, but i think some guys like anal done on them but are afraid to admit it because they don't want people to think they are gay.

Mlle d. Sade said:

neophrates said:

girls that don't like it in the behind, are homophobes. haha.

This is true. I'm gonna go one step further and say "prudes" as well. Just kidding. ...but kinda not.
I was talking to this dude the other day and he was talking about how his ex wouldn't give him a blowjob or let him use the back door. ...wtf?
I can't even believe girls like that still exist w/o a religious/spiritual reason. ..cause that chick was typical southern baptist (EVERYTHING that is not missionary is the debil/women are the debil). ...I'm counting that as social rather than truly religious.

Prudes really get my goat: the self hating female kind. I just don't understand it. Kinda makes me want to pull a Groucho on them or at least lecture them.
*sigh*

It's lonely on this damn island.

[XiaMin]

I'm not a prude and definitely not Christian so save this diatribe for another thread. Read my response to Jahluv to clear that up.

CocoaPuss Zine said:

i also hate prudes. i'm agreeing with you way too much these days... what's up with that? anyway, yeah women should at least be willing to TRY new things, just to see if they like it or not. i'm pretty sure the bible doesn't say "don't give head and don't do anal". but i'm no expert. women who don't give head really really UPSET me because then i meet some guy who hasn't had a BJ in ages and now that is way more work for me. i want to give a workshop on how to do this properly.

i don't think doing anal or not doing anal has anything to do with being gay though. i'm not gay so i'm not sure if there is a set rule or clear line on what makes someone gay, but i think some guys like anal done on them but are afraid to admit it because they don't want people to think they are gay.

Mlle d. Sade said:

neophrates said:

girls that don't like it in the behind, are homophobes. haha.

This is true. I'm gonna go one step further and say "prudes" as well. Just kidding. ...but kinda not.
I was talking to this dude the other day and he was talking about how his ex wouldn't give him a blowjob or let him use the back door. ...wtf?
I can't even believe girls like that still exist w/o a religious/spiritual reason. ..cause that chick was typical southern baptist (EVERYTHING that is not missionary is the debil/women are the debil). ...I'm counting that as social rather than truly religious.

Prudes really get my goat: the self hating female kind. I just don't understand it. Kinda makes me want to pull a Groucho on them or at least lecture them.
*sigh*

It's lonely on this damn island.

[Oktoberschilde]

"M", Has a point there. I am what I am, you are what you are. What twisted little thing makes you tick, is your own little dark secret. Gay /Straight/ Bi Hell! Tri! As long as you and your partner are happy; what else needs to be said?

[CocoaPuss Zine]

your response to him doesn't really say anything about religion. i'm not about any diatribe or whatever it is you said. but really it's hard to not talk about anal sex and being gay and that sort of thing without at least mentioning religion.

i never said you were prude of christian. i was responding to what someone else said about the two, but apparently you didn't read my response either or didn't read what mlle d. sade said and can't make the connection. i answered the question that you asked though. but whatever. enjoy your non-gay anal. LOL



XiaMin said:

I'm not a prude and definitely not Christian so save this diatribe for another thread. Read my response to Jahluv to clear that up.
CocoaPuss Zine said:

i also hate prudes. i'm agreeing with you way too much these days... what's up with that? anyway, yeah women should at least be willing to TRY new things, just to see if they like it or not. i'm pretty sure the bible doesn't say "don't give head and don't do anal". but i'm no expert. women who don't give head really really UPSET me because then i meet some guy who hasn't had a BJ in ages and now that is way more work for me. i want to give a workshop on how to do this properly.

i don't think doing anal or not doing anal has anything to do with being gay though. i'm not gay so i'm not sure if there is a set rule or clear line on what makes someone gay, but i think some guys like anal done on them but are afraid to admit it because they don't want people to think they are gay. Mlle d. Sade said:

neophrates said:

girls that don't like it in the behind, are homophobes. haha.

This is true. I'm gonna go one step further and say "prudes" as well. Just kidding. ...but kinda not.
I was talking to this dude the other day and he was talking about how his ex wouldn't give him a blowjob or let him use the back door. ...wtf?
I can't even believe girls like that still exist w/o a religious/spiritual reason. ..cause that chick was typical southern baptist (EVERYTHING that is not missionary is the debil/women are the debil). ...I'm counting that as social rather than truly religious.

Prudes really get my goat: the self hating female kind. I just don't understand it. Kinda makes me want to pull a Groucho on them or at least lecture them.
*sigh*

It's lonely on this damn island.