Men and Porn

[XiaMin]

So I have some questions about the secret stash. (mainly for the older/long term partnered up men but anyone can pitch in)

First of all, does everyone even have a stash? whether magazines, dvd's or a backup harddrive?

Why, if you've got a partner, maintain the stash? Nostalgia (sp?), an idea well? something to have that's just for you? I mean I like some porn and am definately not closed minded or prudish but I've never felt the need to save or collect anything I've seen. Revisiting the fantasy or images mentally, sure, but a collection, I don't see the point since my memory works just fine.

Even if you and your partner are open and cool with porn, do men still maintain a secret secret stash?

Is a man's taste in porn really a window to his sexual soul?

Do you ever try to incorporate the things you see in porn into everyday life? Ever try to pass them off as your own original idea? lol Or is there a line between fantasy and reality?

I've kept notebooks i've never written in (because they were too cool looking or whatever) and shoes i've never worn, but i don't think it's quite the same thing. (and yes I am a grown ass woman) :P

[Lucky Church]

Wow..... what a great conversation piece. I actually used to have a stash until I realized how much it hurt my girlfriend. She actually felt like I was cheating on her because I had to hide it. I must admit it took me a while to get comfortable watching porn with my wife..... LOL...... My porn was for my private time...... just me and my hand. I thought my girl would try to make an event out of it..... get popcorn and shit....... that's not how I like to watch porn. You would think I have a date coming over!! I start dimming lights, turn the volume down, light a blunt and get to work. When I actually let my girl watch I realized it turned her on. Wow.... who would of thought. Now we watch porn together and I must admit...... there are times when I still like to be alone but it has strengthened our relationship and sex life. I don't have a stash anymore. There is no need with all the websites that make it available for free 24/7.

I used to pretend that all the moves I learned were my creation but that was when I was younger. I realized as I got older there is not to many new sex moves!! Sex has been around long enough for the moves to be worn out! It's up to us as men and women to keep it as interesting as possible for our partner by using mental stimulants as well as our partners preferences during sex. You can only go as far as your imagination allows you! I must say.......... I have an imagination like Harry Potter!! Endless!!!!!!!!!!!!