I want to date a white girl

[PUFFIN]

Idk how that title sounds but I've dated black girls and havent found anything i like or interests me. seriously!. o r jus havent found the right type but its whatever so for now i'm taking a break. I'm looking to find myself not a starigth edge girl but one who is down for just hanging out. not concerned too much about money but just wants to have a good time with me, get to know each other, stuff like that. I've caught some gilrs watching me and idk if its cuz they wanna talk to jus wanna stare but i'm gonna grow some balls and suck it in and start talkin to them cuz mayb i'm letting the right one pass. i'll keep you guys posted and feel free to leave comments and advice. thanks

puffin

[Mlle d. Sade]

lol you'll find one.
My first gf was white. I learned to never judge a book by it's cover from her. She seemed like we'd have nothing in common and like she was a young republican or something but she was a rational thinker- never to one extreme or the other- a gay rights' activist and a social worker. Most of her work was centered around minority youth and she even understood white privilege and all that stuff. She had really cool parents that passed that kind of thinking onto her.

Just don't count any one out.

It's weird. I never thought I'd be able to find a compatible white girl but it happens all the time. General specifics.

[SaintGermaine]

I've dated white girls and black girls and even a girl from Lebanon and still haven't found what I'm looking for in this crazy mixed up world. I'm not saying I'm some kind of Don Juan, believe me, but I've dated enough to know that I don't think it makes any difference what color you are when it comes to relationships, it's all a crapshoot.

The basic problem with modern relationships, the way I see it, is that everyone is overspecialized to such a degree that unless your opposite number shares 99.9 percent of your opinons, attitude, philosophy, bathroom habits and favorite tv shows they're not good enough. They eventually offend us in some miniscule way or we get tired of them when the hot sex wears off and we give them the boot.

In the past, things might have been easier. People were forced into marriage with strangers they hardly knew and forced to stay together come hell or high water or else become a social outcasts. I'm not saying it was better, personally I think it was a hell of a lot worse, but it was probably easier.

Nowadays there are million different subcultures and cults. It's a real Tower of Babel situation where most people can barely communicate, let alone make a love connection.

So all I can say is good luck, if a white girl is giving you the eye, step up to her, make it happen, but don't be disappointed when she doesn't solve all your problems.

[Mlle d. Sade]

True. It is ALLLL a crapshoot. I'm fairly confident I will never find someone like me so I'm over 100% compatibility cause it's never gonna happen. A few things would be nice. I'm not looking for anyone to "complete" me- I think a lot of people need to stop doing that. I just want to have fun. Another problem is trying to find a steady whilst being all non-committal like me. With men, the problem is that they think sex should be "free".

Another problem with modern relationships is modern society's nihilism and/or impersonal communications. And the porn thing. It's waaaay out of hand. So many people are being sexually initiated the wrong way.

Puffin', you may or may not have had this problem but some of the girls I've been with take cues from hetero faux lesbian porn and it's weird to me.

SaintGermaine said:

I've dated white girls and black girls and even a girl from Lebanon and still haven't found what I'm looking for in this crazy mixed up world. I'm not saying I'm some kind of Don Juan, believe me, but I've dated enough to know that I don't think it makes any difference what color you are when it comes to relationships, it's all a crapshoot.
The basic problem with modern relationships, the way I see it, is that everyone is overspecialized to such a degree that unless your opposite number shares 99.9 percent of your opinons, attitude, philosophy, bathroom habits and favorite tv shows they're not good enough. They eventually offend us in some miniscule way or we get tired of them when the hot sex wears off and we give them the boot.
In the past, things might have been easier. People were forced into marriage with strangers they hardly knew and forced to stay together come hell or high water or else become a social outcasts. I'm not saying it was better, personally I think it was a hell of a lot worse, but it was probably easier.

Nowadays there are million different subcultures and cults. It's a real Tower of Babel situation where most people can barely communicate, let alone make a love connection.

So all I can say is good luck, if a white girl is giving you the eye, step up to her, make it happen, but don't be disappointed when she doesn't solve all your problems.

[Rosenda]

No one will stop you Puffin from dating who you want. If they try to punch them in the face.
Seriously take a chance on whomever you have a good gut feeling about, take a chance no matter who they are. Good luck.
This is time for exploring, you never know what awesome girl you'll meet and or get to know.

[guitargrrrl76]

I've learned that you never know where you are going to find it. Find someone accepts you and makes you feel good. Fuck what the world thinks.

[Satra Sia]

What's the verdict?? Did you find her?

You will probably find it's the type of woman and not the color of woman that you seek. Because a realationship with a white girl may or may not work out as well. But I hope that you do find someone you can click with about any/every-thing respectfully.

[Gullah*Gotham*Glitter]

And this is like the 90th post on how badly someone wants to date outside their race? Awesome. I think like only one person suggested to look more than skin deep. Awesome. I'm reminded why I don't come to this board that often.

[Mlle d. Sade]

Do you know how old this thread is?


Gullah*Gotham*Glitter said:

And this is like the 90th post on how badly someone wants to date outside their race? Awesome. I think like only one person suggested to look more than skin deep. Awesome. I'm reminded why I don't come to this board that often.

[ThE bABy SnAtChErS]

I have dated both ..growing up in a small ass all white town you really have no choice...& while there's nothing wrong with datu=in a white girl...there's just something so lovely about being with a black girl..aside from sharing the same skin color..there's a vibe..a connection..you seem to be in tune & plus you can identify with eachother alot better..white girls are so afraid to say the "wrong" thing & can't really open up like they can with other white folks..plus..at least with my exp. ,white girls treat you like some kind of fucking novelty..we're helping them answer all the questions they alway's gossip about with their girlfriends & shit..straight & gay..they all do that shit...I say wait it out cause the "one", she's out there..you just have to stop looking so hard.