Bases

[Gullah*Gotham*Glitter]

So although people use all sorts of terms for all sorts of stuff, there are a few similarities. For example America's favorite Pass Time Baseball is often used for sexual references.

Last night, I met a young man. At first I wasn't going to make out with him, then I noticed that we were alone, he had some really nice lips, and that I was very drunk. *He's cute though. Before I got trashed I noticed that he looks a lot like the r&b singer The Dream*. So anyway, as we were making out, he kept trying to get under my shirt and under my pants, etc.

I said to him "you need to stop that. You're trying to get to 2nd base" and he said "I thought we already were at 2nd base".

So what the hell is 2nd Base?

Here are my definitions, y'all tell me what you think

1st Base - Kissing. Maybe some making out
2nd Base - Shirts comes off, heavy gropping
3rd Base - Oral activities
4th Base - The No Pants Dance

So does Making out fall more under 2nd base or is that in the lil outfield area between 1st and 2nd? Or did I justify my bases because I didn't want to go home with him? Because I was drunk, but not that drunk......

P.S. I'm still trying to figure out how I feel asleep in my bed and woke up on my couch.

[MER]

You know, I've been trying to figure it out too. The person I'm dating has it in a different type of order than I do, with the 4th being actual full on sexual experience of course.
The whole base thing is a new thing for me. He's the FIRST guy that I'm doing this with, so I dunno what I'm doing XD.

[The Lure Lovers]

meesh said:

wow does every post on here have to turn into a screaming fight about what people intended to say vs how people interpreted it? i was really looking forward to reading the end of these posts and figuring out what exactly the bases were. i'm under 28 so i really have no idea. probably because i went to public school. sorry i couldn't help myself.

anyway, i hope the original poster got her answer from somewhere since she sure as hell didn't get it from here.

I believe you have to follow the truth no matter where it leads you. Screaming fights whatever.