being single....

[Bobby Digital]

do u enjoy being single or do u prefer 2 be in a relationship an reap the benefit???
do u hate relationships and the sad deja vu outcome of most of them???
do u just settle or sticc it out till u find the rite 1???
whats your outlook on being single???

i kno i prefer 2 be single until i find the rite 1 cuz most ppl dnt seem rite 4 me.......relationships succ wen is not wat u really want but once or twice i jus stucc wit it cuz i felt it was the rite thing 2 do

[digitalxsunrise]

i love the comfort of being in a relationship but i don't mind being single. my last two relationships ended really bad so i'm taking a break from being "serious" with anyone to really find myself & figure out what i want & need from someone.

plus, i think i need to be more picky about who i date. i always end up with jerks. >_<</body>

[Coi Coizero]

I prefer being single, but I always end up in relationships. The pattern goes something like this:

Me - You're my best friend

Friend - I'd like to be more than friends.

Me - Okay.

[Bobby Digital]

lol....thats a song I know all too well

Coi Coizero said:

I prefer being single, but I always end up in relationships. The pattern goes something like this:

Me - You're my best friend

Friend - I'd like to be more than friends.

Me - Okay.

[Vicki FM aka "Slip-Knaughty"]

Hmmm...lucky me...hip hip freakin hooray( i say unenthuiastically) I've never expirenced the...delight of being in a relationship unlike...some teens. I may...envy a little but i like my privacy and space. And I just didn't have time for that stuff. I'll probably have my first boyfriend in college.....heh heh or 10 years from now. lol = )

[MER]

You and me both. I keep ending up with losers or idiots. Mostly idiots. I want a smart/nerdy man who wants to be dominated. What's so hard about finding one like that? Apparently for me it is =_=

digitalxsunrise said:

plus, i think i need to be more picky about who i date. i always end up with jerks. >_<</body>

[Death is Drunk]

Bobby Digital said:

lol....thats a song I know all too well

Coi Coizero said:

I prefer being single, but I always end up in relationships. The pattern goes something like this:

Me - You're my best friend

Friend - I'd like to be more than friends.

Me - Okay.

Me too :/

[Adrianna]

i dont mind being single because it's nice to do just have fun & no worries & no committment but on the other the hand there is nothing better then getting to know someone intimately & coming together and growing together. I actually like being in relationships even if at first i knew they weren't going to be the best just because of the learning experience and meeting new ppl!

[DaJazzlady]

While being single, is OK in a sense that I can do as I please.As a hopeless romantic and a overall sensual affectionate individual you start to miss being touched.I don't necessarily mean sex overall male female interaction. I could be with somebody just for the sake of being with somebody or for the physical, but overall that sucks too. So I'm in a weird place. I want somebody, but I want something real.I love to love and love being loved in return.

I meet men on a daily basis but no one that makes me go wow.In fact its been ages since I met any man that just literally took my breathe away.The combo of personality,strength,spirit,weirdness, I seek.It's deep but at the same time it ain't.

[lyfenlyn]

!= said:

I'm not in a relationship so I consider myself "single" I like being single. Every once in a while I feel lonely but it's nothing that's unbearable.

This

[El Machetero]

DaJazzlady wrote:
While being single, is OK in a sense that I can do as I please.As a hopeless romantic and a overall sensual affectionate individual you start to miss being touched.I don't necessarily mean sex overall male female interaction. I could be with somebody just for the sake of being with somebody or for the physical, but overall that sucks too. So I'm in a weird place. I want somebody, but I want something real.I love to love and love being loved in return.

Word up.

[Rosenda]

Amen to that, JazzLady. I heart you for saying that and exactly as I think it. Word to the second power on all of that.

Perhaps I feel this as being newly single? I dunno, but it rings true. I'd only hate relationships if I'd been through so many bad ones that it made my head spin. But I haven't, and this last one was my longest and happiest in every single way.

I admit wanting it, back again same person, but in a different way. Who knows?

Fact is........given how my life has gone and how LATE I am at all this, I seriously DOUBT I will ever have had so many men that it's all by rote and routine. Seems like every single of the few guys I've dated (and I can just about count on both hands and remember all their names, it's been THAT few) was so completely different that I have trouble seeing any future patterns.

I've learned more what I want and what I don't want only in this last relationship. I feel like my entire universe was clouded before by the very fact of my own late immaturity and naievete. Like the world opened up and my eyes opened up and my brain started working with the last 8 years. And that's a good thing. Even if I am single forever, it will have still been wonderful in my heart forever.

Peace.

[Rosenda]

Oh, and I feel, little by day by day by little, my life is more productive now. I think that has much more to do with me and what I was not doing than the goodness of the relationship that I did have. I had all kinds of encouragement and information from him, but I alone was too lazy to use any of it.

Now I am alone and I feel I have to act. And I have been. It's not easy but it's good, to do the practical shit. Being single means you have to grow up.